Speaking as one who was 'personally' attacked a short while back (something about needing to take my medication and let more mature people talk, I think, lol),despite that, I personally think banning should be a last resort, for the really bad situations, like the 'fake' Thea deal.
Personality conflicts are going to happen. We have too diverse of a group for them to not occur, yes, even on an extremely regular basis. Labelling this or that person as a troublemaker over such is kind of a large step to take, most especially if both seem to enjoy enticing the other into arguments.
If someone is consistantly launching personal attacks to harass another member, well, yeah...a warning should definitely be given.
Another site I used to post on regularly has a '3 strikes, you're out' policy. You have to petition the mods to be re-admitted to the board if you get banned. Not only that, if you get a warning, it is placed where it is clearly viewable right under your username on each and every post you make, so everyone sees it.
As far as disagreeing with AW policies, well, that's a staff call. It is clearly stated in the TOS that you are not to post negative statements about AW on the message boards. I guess the kicker on that is whether they are really negative, or attempts at pointing out what they think should be changed in order to make AW better.
One problem I see with discussing this on the message board is that there are members who never bother to read the boards, and those who read, but never participate on them. Shouldn't their opinion be solicited, as well? =)
Can a staff member clarify that?
Not that it really has anything to do with the discussion, I just thought I'd mention I thought that was how it was, so if I'm wrong, please advise. =)
I don't recall ever seeing a set of rules.. Can someone point me towards them?
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As for those that get offended by our policies and leave the site, this happens on all websites. It's usually those that want to bend/break our rules and then get offended that we upheld our policies. It's simply impossible to keep every single member that ever joins our site. For every member that leaves each month, we have over a hundred new artists that join.
Is there a block feature on this site that allows you to filter out any posts from people you don't want to know even exist? Not that those work because human nature is to end up reading the posts by the offender anyway.
It seems realatively simple to rectify. If someone is just whinning and complaining or making personal attacks on the board, ignore them. Nothing works better than not responding in any manner. the bully gets bored and moves on.
If somone makes attacks via email, AW shoudl issue a warning for the first offense then a temporary suspension for a pre determined number of further offenses after which you are eprmenntly suspended.
Certain things should fall under a zero tolerance policy, including promoting hatred, violence, bigotry, perpetuating money making scams or slander against a persona character that has no connection to anything they have posted. These offense should warrant an immediate, permenent suspension.
NUMBER ONE!
The TM's will be pleased to know that pending a sudden display of courage by those who oppose rudeness and intimidation, I will be pulling my portfolio at the end of the day.
This is an artist's site, not a "social" lounge. While we do gather here this is an art site and for the most part I believe that most members stick to that idea. I see the point of free speech and all, but in a community, the trouble makers either have to compromise and quit being the problem, or they have to leave the board. Its for everyone and everyone should be able to come here in comfort and feel respected. I usually feel pretty good about this site, but the message boards have been a mess. The bullying has to stop. This is not being a bully by sticking up for a majority opinion. I think its great that you have the hutzpah to stand up and enforce your rules. A lot of boards just let it go and eventually would close the board because of lack of interest. Facing the problem doesn't make anyone a whiner or complainer.
Thanks for dealing with this in an adult way AW!
Heidi Olson
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