Even if I know many.
At worse moments of life, there were very few people, who stood there by my side.
( I remember that always ) Some of those I may expected to support me, were not really able.
If loved one takes deliberately your power, don't trust this person, to be there at your side, when you most need support.
You may find that this person is abuser.. perhaps in panic.
You need to find some new people who will be able to stay there at your side always, without no conditions. Let there be BEST moments in LIFE.