My only point is that it is not the act of saying a prayer or walking an aisle that saves you, but it is a sincere belief in who Jesus is and what He has done. If there is no evidence of change in your thoughts, words or actions after claiming Christ then you must exam yourself to see if you are in the faith. We are all fallen sinners and a person can lie to themselves about their salvation. It is especially easy to embrace this lie, if their Pastor is like the one portrayed here. Sinners always want a way to "eat their cake and have it too". They like the idea of Heaven and the pleasures of a sinful life too. However, "God will not be mocked".